I Like this Girl...

So... I'm in high school... Hormones are obviously raging. And unfortunately I like this girl in my Math and English class... So... I have liked her for some time and... sorry... it's just hard telling possibly a hundred people who will look at this thread that I like a girl. So she seems pretty nice, talkative, maybe even annoying at times. But the thing is... I've only talked to her once. And just today I found out she's going out with someone, a friend I know. Yeah... I was scared to ask her out because well, I've never talked to her and like maybe I'll get rejected. Help? And don't give me cheesy advice like say some weird phrase. So umm... Yeah... To those people who know about this already... don't give me the same advice, it didn't really work and people would notice...

 

You know, for me, getting to know a girl better and being good friends is the key to a successful relationship in the future. I aint that good with girls myself. But all i can say is, talk to her, get to know her better. Maybe she will dump your friend and find something interesting in you? xD

well, im sure other people in this forum has better advice
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Spend a ton of money on her for christmas. If she doesn't like you, play it off ("Oh, I buy two tons of vintage Pogs for everyone this time a year, no biggie) and try again later.

Course, you might run into probs, her having a boytoy and all

 

A boytoy? that's the weirdest thing I've heard all day... Yeah, I just need a way to talk to her without looking suspicious. I can't just go up to her and be like , "Hi, my name is ------, would you like to hang out?

 

yeah not like that..lol, how awkward would that be!! lol!!

yeah just be yourself and stuff =]

 

Get her to know you first. Since you're in two of her classes, try to get talk to her about something from the class. Tests, grades, homework, etc. can be good ice breakers. Chances are, unless you're totally unpresentable (bad smell, bad clothes, etc.) or if she's busy, she's not going to tell you to go away. Say something funny - that'll definitely get her interested in you (make sure it is funny first. It's better to say nothing than say something that's totally lame). Make her feel good, but don't overdo the compliments. Basically, you want her to associate you with happiness. Good luck, and remember not to try anything with her boyfriend nearby.

 

well, the boyfriend stops you from going to far, since shes in your classes it gives you an excuse to talk to her.
best thing would be to get to know her, that way if she does dump her boyfriend, you're there for the rebound (its worked for me ).

 

Well, the way I do it is:

1. Smile at her from across the room... Only once you've made eye contact...
2. When you walk past her say something... Something like "Hey" or "Whats up?". A question is normally good. It sparks a conversation, as small as it may be.. During this conversation (once you've spoken to her a few times) throw in a compliment. "I like what your hair, it looks really good" or "That whole 'underwear on the outside of your pants thing' really suits you"... But really clothes is good to talk about... chicks love clothes...
3. Always be nice... and funny too!
4. Don't give her ANYTHING... This either leads to you being a stalker or a loser... Neither of which you want to be.
5. TELL HER YOUR GOD DAMN NAME!!! HAHAHA, no just kidding your name isn't important. If she likes you she'll a.ask for, b.find out, c.or already know your name...

Simple. They don't have to be in any specific order...

 

only the fear of rejection stops/stopped you...
find a way around that

 

yeah! and remember, be yourself. Never make things awkward....i said that in my last post didnt i? meh
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I'd say it's purely hormonal. I mean, if you've only talked to her once, it doesn't really seem that you're basing it too solidly off of anything, just hormones. Now I know that's not really a solution, just an explanation. There aren't simply solutions to situations like these.

I know you aren't interested in saying or anything, which I don't really understand because often they're the best form of either expressing what you're going through or getting over what you're going through, as said in Hogan's Heroes...

"Women are just like wars. There's always another one coming around."

 

Even though it's hormonal, it's still worth a shot... I liked a girl for umm.. 6 months... haha... That was hormonal, and I was in a similar situation mate... She's now my girlfriend! *is happy and wants the world to know*

Takes up computer time though... hahaha

 

LOL! +1 for prioritising.

Yeah, obviously a crush is still a crush. I was mainly just explaining what he's going through.

 

It's a good idea to approach her without the intention of wanting to know her badly (lots of questions, etc.), but rather just small talk and commenting on shared experience. Shared experience is very important so you want to spend as much time with her (within reason - you 2 are still strangers to each other), so whenever you spot her, got here, and if she's with her boyfriend or busy chatting, still go that way so she can see you.

When you're actually talking, you offering/asking for help with the homework tends to be a good topic. And yeah being funny is also important, but don't try too hard, and don't ROFL on your own jokes/funny stories.

 

Or you could just let her go her merry own way since she's dating your mate, probably not the best idea to try and steal someones GF, and why would she want to go out if shes already going out with somone else, just a few obvious points >.>

 

Thats probably why he does

But yeah, don't make any obvious advances, just act like you want to be her friend, then wait for the rebound.

 

Yeah man, first things first ...

Nonono... your all wrong. You gotta get in before she becomes too attached to him. So she's kinda on the edge about dating him... Move in, while you still can... The ship has set sail... you gotta sink it before it returns with reinforcements...

 

Depends on how good of a friend your friend is, is it just some random you hang with or do you two go way back.

 

yeah it all depends. Hurry up and reply templar!! protoss warriors never sleep!!!

 

I suggest.

Go ask, her out.