Into the mind of bullies...

You all have probably had this one really big, mean kid who just goes around making trouble. Bad grades, good looking, hangs out with the people of the same race... That's how my school's bullies are.

I'm not trying to be racist, just telling you my experiences.

So there's this Mexican kid and I have P.E. class with him. Whenever he can, he just punches me, kicks me, calls me names, or tries to force me to trip (as in he pulls my arm and sticks his leg out to trip me). It gets so annoying as he also does it to my friend who is about the same size as me. I'm in 8th grade but the bully is in 7th grade although he is bigger than me...

So you know I talk about him when he does something to me. He has detention and I overheard him talking to a teacher about how he's gotten expelled from a lot of schools already. I'm starting to laugh at his life as he has horrible grades and has little respect for the world.

You know, I could beat him intellectually anytime like his name is Angel, by the way, I call him a devil. Lots of other things I do too. He kicks me and i say ,"Hey! What's your problem?" Then he usually says something like it's you, you little nerd. So I tell him don't be jealous just cause I'm smarter than you. He gets mad, I get a load of pain...

I want to tell the teacher, but he could easily get me in trouble by telling the teacher what I called him!

GrRrRrRrRrRrRrRrRrRrRrRrRrRrRrR

I want to kill him...Literally...
Don't worry I won't... yet...

So, tell me your experiences with bullies or some jerkwad at your school or somewhere you've met.

 

eh.. i moved and now im happy

 

Crap I'm 6'3 and I work out and **** so I don't have any problem with bullies anymore

When I was in seventh grade it wasn't really serious but there was this kid who just liked to annoy me. Wasn't really a bully, but just liked to annoy me.

In fourth grade I got beat up once (when I was still small and skinny) cause I wasn't taking **** from a bully. He ended up expelled and my life just continued normal.

Advice:
If he is in a gang and is extremely crazy just stay away. You don't want to deal with that (apparently he is not that kind, because tripping people is deplorable for someone like that)

Try to use something of your own quality to counter him. Mimicking them in a high-pitched voice in front of their friends usually makes them outrageously mad, and its fun. I don't know you eventually will learn how to deal.

Just don't show signs of pain or weakness, that's imperative.

And don't say stuff like "stop it!!" or "what's your problem??", because that is kind of nerdy and that is what he wants. If he punches you just pretend you didn't feel anything, and feel free to insult him whenever possible.
Try to have a friend at your side to back you up and stuff.

Ask your teacher to keep an eye on him explaining the situation. Tell the teacher who knows he was expelled what he is doing, and just don't let him know.

Hope that helps

 

I never actually got bullied because I'm like one of the biggest strongest people in my age. But yeah, not showing weakness is the key. You show him you're not to be messed with and they'll leave you alone. Other than that, you could try getting bigger yourself.

 

I never got bullied appart from few incidents here and there. Perhaps beacause I am fairly big and if I really want to defend myself physically, I can.
Though when I was in third grade, still in czech school, I got bullied a lot by a group of 7/8th grade children. It ended up after they finally broke my hand and teachers could no longer pretend that I am making this stuff up. So I got used to the fact that I have to rely on myself, not teachers or other authorities, kinda like in real life
So yeah, I got lesson in democracy! You want to protect yourself physically and beat him up too? Youre in trouble. You just let him beat you? Youre in trouble. You thing teacher/police will help you? Youre in trouble.

You are lucky that its just one kid. They key is to not let yourself look like a boxing bag. If you can, punch him back sometimes, tell teachers that arent complete morons, call your friend to help you.

 

This guy at my skool is supposed to be a year 8 guy, but he wasn't too bright. So he got put back a year.
Now not all year 8 are that big, but this guys HUGE!! He plays rugby and hes pretty much all buffed up.
He is like a full on gangster and a bully.

Not that he can actually hurt someone that is. He just tries to act tough and intimidate alot of people.

 

punch him in the face.

seriously, he only picks on you because he thinks you wont fight back(and you sound insanely nerdy ) show him you wont take that sh*t (infront of a teacher so he cant smash you when hes mad. get his respect.

 

Yeah. Punching someone in the face in front of a teacher is real smart.

But really, retaliation is the key. If you retaliate, they aren't going to be picking on you.

 

me?
no problem with me.EKKYBOY=bully+me=i beat him lol.
but he bullies girls[6-10 like old]
also boys sometmes

 

The only time I've been bullied is when I was using the net and my brother wanted to play counter strike. You know those hard core counter strikers. So funny. He's much bigger and tougher than me though. So if he did try to fight me I'd get mushed. But all his threats were as empty as a bucket of KFC chicken in a fat man's hands. And thats pretty empty! I just never backed down and he gave up (without any hitting)! Persistence FTW!!!!

 

No idea what the others are talking about, just sock him in the face.

 

Or, even better, drug his drink and destroy his mind for life. hahahaha, no just a joke. I think thats just the slightest tad harsh. A good old punch in the face sounds fun. A bit contradictory to my last post. Maybe just punch and run? I'm such a coward. Hehe!

 

I've honestly had some trouble with bullies in the past because I was the new kid at school around 6th grade, and in my experience, the best thing to do is to go buy a gun illegally and shoot him/her in the face in the parking lot after school on a Friday. That way the body doesn't get found over the weekend, and you can leave it somewhere relatively public without it getting noticed while you decide what to do with it.

jk

But seriously, if its minor ****, like calling you names, just say stuff like "ass" or "jerk" or stuff like that, and then continue on with what you are doing. Something insulting, but which won't escalate the situation into a dis-off. The key is to not react. I tease my brother for fun at times (I'm 21, he's 18) and the only pleasure I get is from seeing his reaction. Why else would I blast Celine Dion with the speakers at 11?

 

No dont call him names. Thats a stupid thing to do. It will only give him a reason to bully you and excuse for teachers. Just fight back, physically.

Hes used to you being passive and he can do whatever he wants to you without risking no harm himself. If you fight back I am sure that after couple of fights he will give up. I mean you dont have to beat him completely or even win but if he knows that when he attacks you its gonna hurt him aswell he will re-think his strategy.

 

i had a bully problem once he was biger but very anoying but that was toleroble but when he smacked me across the face with a doughnut (yes you can laugh it is kinda funny) i was done with his shi t so i decked him in the face 5 minets later i noticed my hand hurt i had broken my middle nukle on his face lol after that he never talked or messed with me again.

 

I used to be somewhat of a bully in elementary school as much as I hate to admit it. Though I guess I wasn't a traditional bully since my "thing" was poking people (hard).

Thankfully I grew out of that before entering middle school, and now am a pretty mellow guy who minds his own business instead. If I met myself back then, I probably would've smacked him for doing such a stupid thing, hehe.

 

Fighting back is retarded, you are just giving reason to get in trouble, both the teacher (if she sees you) and the bully himself can screw you. Unless you know you can beat the bully if you want to, and is willing to risk getting in trouble, don't do it.

Don't show weakness. The most you do is to piss him off saying how weak his punches are or stuff about his mom, but that's all.

 

Z-BosoN: Well if you like getting punched then youre a masochist. And if the author of this thread is a masochist or the bully really hits so softly then yes, go ahead, let him punch you for rest of your life spend in school.

If ignoring him doesnt work, then fight back. I dont think there is other choice, unless your teachers or someone is willing to help you (and not just stuff like "Ill talk to him" but REALLY help you) which in my case didnt work until I got to hospital. Yeah sure, fighting back might get you into trouble, but thing that I would do is to go to my teacher, tell him about this problem, even write him a letter if you want to be elegant about it, telling him that if something isnt done about this bully he will fight back, and then even if you get caught you wont get into too much of a trouble.

 

*nods* bullies=problems.

annoying, mean, hateful.

i've been attacked by girls and guys. stuff happens, you try to dodge it. ignoring deosn;t help, only so much people can take. rfightign back isn't always wise because it was get you hurt or in trouble. and staying away isn;t the best either because people have classes together etc.

I've been bullied by all kinds throughout my life. best you can do is just tell someone, get some friends, find a way to get through it.

 

my teachers are always beliving when i say:
his bullying me!
his bulyying her!
or belives almost anyone.
besides not so hard to beat bullys in my school .