My activity has dropped I believe 10% maybe more since I checked for several reasons, 1. I just asked out this really nice girl I met at a class I was taking to learn how to cook several dishes. 2. I have been playing a ton of Garena. 3. My DoTA clan games have been alot of time consuming. 4. I have barely been on the forum, maybe dropping by once everyday, if I remember. Now my real question if for people like dark. Ok, so I have never actually kissed a girl for many reasons...... 1. I have been too shy. 2. I am afraid I will mess up or something and embaress myself. 3. I just dont seem to want to kiss her. Mostly, I have had about 3 gf's that want me too kiss her. The one that I just was out with recently said I wasnt emotional enough and then I dumped her. She was the one my friend asked if she would make out with. I said no. She said she wanted too........I was shy. The other 3 were just moments when they felt like it. I sort of backed away. I dont know what exactly to do, since they are girl that have kissed alot of other guys and seem to sway to me because they know i'm not a douche. Or so they say. It also doesnt seem like I wanto........for some reason its just not the place. I also get extremely embaressed if i'm with her by friends. Sort of like pressure. I would rather much hug her and hold her and never let go.........If you know what i mean.... I was just wondering if there was anything that might help. Also DO NOT READ THE ENTIRE THING IF YOU DONT WANTO
Yeah. Cause I was wonderin'. EDIT: Read the bit after the reasons. I've never been much into smoochin' meself. Possibly because of my OCD tendencies (Seriously, soooo gross. They eat with that mouth!!). IMO kissing is more symbolic of lust and hugging is more comfort. If you don't wanna kiss 'em, that's totally and completely your choice. Just make sure they know that you're not hugely into kissing BEFORE they expect you to go hog-wild with the makin' out, otherwise it'll be a let down. If they know that you're not a kisser from the get-go, they'll be more accepting of it. OR Find a chick who isn't into kissing either. My last one far preferred cuddling to making out, and it worked out pretty good for both of us.