Younger sibling problems

My freakin brother keeps going on my accounts (youtube, mail, and even sc2forums) and saying crap about me or starts advertising.

on youtube, he went to a girl and typed in "I can't live without you" and I was humiliated by my friends.

on sc2forums, he goes to the Art section and posts the guitar thing and also the winterrowd thing

and in real life he takes my personal stuff (wallet, iPod, ect) and messes around with it

he doesnt even listens to me

i have tried everything such as beatings, threaten, told my mom about it, and everything...

help please

edit: and he almost got me banned in sc2forums for making an account ProtossGod and started spamming like hell and sent me all the minerals before he got banned

he is 11, 2 years younger than i am

another edit: i have considered putting time limits on sc2forums so my bro cant do it

 

Ummm...

I would put a password on your saved passwords and then always log out from the site.

You could also create a user and password protect that. It would keep him away from your passwords and accounts....

With the iPod and such, it ALWAYS works to put it in a box and lock it with a combo pad or key. Keep the key with you.

Or you could start tricking him... i.e. he takes your iPod but you've filled it with Sesame Street music....

He takes your wallet and nothing is in it(you place fake wallets around).

 

no its not like that
he takes it and makes me run and catch him and beat the sht out of him and he takes this as "fun"

of course, i cant really hit him... freakin parents of course...
but he likes to be tickled and titty twisted and yea...

but it would feel so good just landing a full blow on his body once in a while...

owerup: for advice

 

Well....

I know this is gonna sound all parenty and crap... but your brother does this because he wants attention from you. Believe it or not he loves you, whether either or you is willing to admit that. You love him as well, but its hard for brothers to communicate this feeling.

Take it from me, I was a younger brother once and I know how desperately you sometimes want the attention of an older sibling. Including him in more of your activities might help a little bit, and so would explaining the situation to him. You could tell him that "hey, I don't mind wrestling around and goofing off with you, but I really don't like it when you touch my stuff. It actually makes me mad at you."

Tell him you'd be willing to share some of your stuff, but he needs to realize what is your personal property and that his getting on your accounts is absolutely unacceptable.

You should also talk to your parents about appropriate punishments that can be SET OUT AHEAD OF TIME if he decides to break these rules and get on your account. But don't forget, it's very important that he understand why he isn't allowed on your accounts. It's not a matter of access, but simply that it's not fair that you have to share a "personality" with him online.

If your brother still wants to use these forums I would suggest you send an e-mail to sc2forums and ask for permission to create an account from the same IP address.

Hope this helps! Thanks for the owerup:

 

Like Joneagle said, all he wants is attention. He doesn't care if it's int he form of you pummeling him, as long as he gets it. I'm the oldest of four, so I know exactly how you feel. Ask him to play a couple round of whatever with you out of the blue. Go on a bike ride with him. At first he'll be an annoying little bugger cause he's set in his ways, and he won't trust you, but as soon as he realizes you're sincere, things will chill, and you'll be tight.

 

thx guys

owerup:

 

i dont know how you feel, im 13 and only child in a family, but ithink i can imagine how you feel: RAAAAAARGH, OBLITORATE HIM

 

Ah.... Annoying... isn't it? I know, if he takes your stuff, you take his, then trade. That always works for me. To make sure the trade works, you each hold on the the item and let go at the same time. If he runs away, catch him and tickle him to death. Just do it, he will hate it. Believe me, my bigger brother sued to do that to me when I was little and I took his stuff. As soon as he caught me he threw me on the sofa and just started tickling me and didn't stop. Problem solved. Every time your annoyed by him, tickle him and don't stop until something happens.

 

Plus your parent can't really get mad at you for tickling, can they? Just watch out for swinging fists, easy bloody nose right there.

 

yea but my brother doesnt have anything thats important to him
he pissed me off again i wanna punch him in the stomach right now

 

dude, thats harsh, i have 2 older brothers and a youbger sister so i dont really have that problem, but my cousin is about 12 (im 14) and he is SERIOUSLY annoying, usually when he comes over i lock him in the closet, but he's your brother, so that doesnt really work cuz hes there all the time

 

I AM the younger sibling
Muhahahahahahaha


Thoug I never have and ever will be an asshole like that fucking with others accounts

 

I hate kids altegether. yeah yeah, I know we were all kids once, but sometimes, you just want to punch them. Especially the punk kids who think they are tough.

 

We were all kids, but not all of us were childish like that. He'll hopefully get more mature in a couple of years.

I'm glad I never had younger brothers or sisters.

 

i'm thirteen and more adult than most adults*a little exegerated*

 

I have the same problem
We have seperatte accounts on PC so he can't do anything
to my net accounts.

 

If he takes your stuff why don't you just take something of his that has a special meaning to him or of greater value. You could always throw him off a full grown elephant. If all else fails Try and get some photos of him playing with dolls and threaten to spread them throughout his school, if he keeps doing go through with the threat and release it to the world. Better yet you could throw a dress on him and take a photo before he has time to take it off.

 

You're evil ya know that. Blackmailing a sibling with something so humiliating

 

blackmailing is crap...therefore i agree with birdofprey

 

You gotta do whats necessary, if you've tried everything else theres but only 1 option left.