Into the mind of bullies...

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by Darktemplar_L, May 27, 2008.

Into the mind of bullies...

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by Darktemplar_L, May 27, 2008.

  1. ijffdrie

    ijffdrie Lord of Spam

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    i got bullied once and than again and again and again(repaet fourhundred times) i was really the laughingstock of amsterdam
     
  2. karlo

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    OH MY GOSH!!!!!!!!!








































    *LAUGHES ALLOT!*




















    true?!?!?!?!?!?!



    LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL





    that is so funny LOLOLOLOL!!!!!!!!!!
    just like your signature,it keeps on saying rofl like a hundred times! lol
     
  3. ijffdrie

    ijffdrie Lord of Spam

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    are you talking to me?

    anyways after twelve years of bullying i grew big and powerfull(more strength than the bullies), and after another year, when i was thirteen(yes i was bullied since i was 0) i realized that i was strong, and i really hit someone, hard, after which i took him to the hospital to check up his eye. it was OK
     
  4. Light

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    I was never bullied. I had many enemies which I hated very much tho. I only remember once my jap friend was bullied by someone, I just came up to him and smashed that guy's nose.
     
  5. Darktemplar_L

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    First off guys, punching him in the face doesn't help, I would get in trouble or he would just start to punch me even more. And seriously, you can't pretend there is no pain when there is pain... i mean the bully just gets at me whenever he can. Just today he pushed me onto the ground while saying," Get out of the way nerd." I just want to make clear, I'm not a f*cking nerd. You guys are getting me mad by saying "oh you sound nerdy" or "hey that makes you nerdy". I GET SO MAD RAGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
    RAGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

    This is why I hate society, there is no order, no correct punishment for people who deserve to be punished like this bully. He is hurting people, he has no intelligence whatsoever and can't call me any names because my comebacks are too good for him. Here's an example of my comeback!

    me: "Wow a**hole, too stupid to think of something else to say?"
    him: "Yo momma"
    me:"At least I have a mom, you have two dads."

    Lulz, one of my favorites...

    Anyways what I'm trying to say is that I'm not a nerd, I hate being called a nerd because that's not what I am and it's so annoying when this guy calls me a nerd then here people said a few times I'm a bit a nerd... And, the physical assault is annoying as I've had some bruises and has been sore from where I have been hit. He's given me scrapes from when he trips me. He especially hurts my friend because he does absolutely nothing to resist him and therefore picks on him more than me. He deserves...to...die... Idiots like him don't deserve to live as they contribute nothing to society and just waste our food and air.
     
  6. i2new@aol.com

    i2new@aol.com New Member

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    bro, you need to make really go big friends.... i mean get on the football team, trust me you get on the football team and you make good jokes the hole team will defend you like a brother. I was on the football team i'm 6 feet about 250 pounds and i will no joke snap a b*tches neck if i catch them messin with any of my hommies or females i have a clame over. You need to join a non gang related group. Even a skaterboy crew will due... aslong as you guys stick up for one another.
     
  7. karlo

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    lol.
    since you were so young? lol youl die cause of that lol.

    yes i am talking to you.
     
  8. Wlck742

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    Okay. This is how you have to live life:

    Think about your most valuable possession. Now when someone starts picking on you imagine you see someone running out of your house with your most valuable possession. You chase him and make him pay for stealing from you. That's what you have to imagine when someone bullies you. Cops might screw you over but hell, at least you showed him.

    Just some words of wisdom.
     
  9. ijffdrie

    ijffdrie Lord of Spam

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    erm i dont pretend there isnt pain, but i was hit so much i feel less pain than usual
     
  10. overmind

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    amsterdam? a spacecake wil make all your pain go away...

    and DT dude, i'm serious, retaliate and he wont mess with you.
     
  11. LordKerwyn

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    Fighting usually isn't the answer unless you have exausted all other options. If you have any kind of good relation with a teacher or principal (or even the superintendent, depending on school size) I would advise going to one of them first and seeing if they can help the siuatiion at all.
     
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    in my experience, teachers only make it worse.
     
  13. Nikzad

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    quoted for emphasis
     
  14. TheWorker

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    I dont know about you but this option never worked for me or most of people I know. Teachers just dont care. The most radical thing theyve ever done for me is that the bully lost one lunch break... and then he beated me up for telling on him + half of the school thought of me as a telly-teller.
     
  15. Babmer

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    Ok, lots of posts about fighting back, i agree with this to some degree but imho the best thing to do is laugh, and smile if the insults are verbal. If he starts 'hitting' you or whatever then its obvious he isnt trying to get into a searious fight with you. If you cant compete in the 'play' fight just from the size of him and experiance etc then the best thing to do is learn to wind him, or etc and just let it pass. Unless he is REALLY REALLY REALLY pissing you off i wouldnt reccomend having a full scale fight with him in all seariousness, as a loss infront of a lot of people sounds rather bad tbh :p.

    1. Learn self defence - bass rutten ftw! (for a searious fight if you really cant take much more)
    2. a strange one.. might not work.. but invite him round your house! will **** up his mind cause he wont know wtf is going on :].
    3. laugh and punch back (a playfight sorta style, dont make it searious)
     
  16. ijffdrie

    ijffdrie Lord of Spam

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    QFT
     
  17. Darktemplar_L

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    You guys don't understand, he kicks and punched with full force, not like play fighting. Just today he took my vitamin water and threatened to pour it all out. So he told me he would pour it out if I came closer and told me that he wanted it. He said he wanted it for a science experiment... Guess what his experiment was: To see what happens if he puts something in there...WTFWTFWTFWTFWTFWTFWTF RETARDED. I mean, I paid money for that and I'm not going to let him just pour it out. So I said give it to me and I'll pay you a dollar on Monday. I'm not going to pay him :)

    So he agreed and then he threw the bottle all the way out onto our school's field... I had to get it. I called him a
    f*ggot. The thing is, I have never done anything to him before. It's been going on for like the past few months. Heck, in the beginning of teh year, I didn't even know that guy was in our class. Never talked to him, he never talked to me. Then like near February, I think, he starts to mess with me and calling me nerd and other cr*p.

    GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR He should die.
     
  18. BirdofPrey

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    Convince him to do something stupid in violation the the school rules and then get him suspended

    They sometimes back off if you show that if they screw tih you you'll screw back
     
  19. LordKerwyn

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    @TheWorker if I had an honest bully problem (which is what it sounds like DT_L has) I would go straight to the Principal or Superintendident depending on which was more readily available and ask that they do sometihng about it. And if it was bad enough that it could be classified as assualt I would probably ask the cops to look into to it as well.

    But that route depends heavily on school size and the faculties authority as well as their view of you. And that is something only DT_L can know. But fighting back back should only be used a last resort no matter what happens, because once a person starts to do wrong to counter wrongs done to them they are just as likely to be punished as the initial offender.

    To be completely honest I have never had a bully problem in my entire career as a student. My school is lcukily small enough were there is almost never problems like this of any kind, and when they do happen most offenders are expelled pretty quickly, and even if there was ever a problem I would prbably be one of the last "nerds" to be picked on, because my size means I am probably taking atleast one person with me. This may devaluate my advice, but at the end of the day whoever can use the system better is going to be the winner.

    P.S. Nikzad if you honestly believe killing someone is a route that should be taken in a case like this I hope you get locked up real soon.
     
  20. karlo

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    my teachers takes bullies really seroiusly,fromhitting them from a woden spoon[very big]
    ot having them fight bully to bully unitl thry bully each other out lol.but i never remember they doing the bully to bully.they just try to scare them.